When I used to compete in Judo, I knew what to expect e.g., I knew how to win the fight, what the rules were, how long the “fight” would last for, and if I was competing locally/regionally I often knew the people I’d be competing against. All of these things allowed me to make “trained” responses i.e., I could set up throws, work towards submissions on the ground etc. However, real life violence is very different; there is no referee to stop, start and adjudicate the fight, there are no rules th...(Click Here To Read The Article)
In last week’s article I looked at the need to commit to violence when dealing with physical confrontations, i.e., you need to be 100% committed to the task at hand and that means committing to violence. It would be nice to think that you could “safely” throw people away from you, without causing them any harm, such as in an aikido demonstration, whilst failing to acknowledge if the person hadn’t “rolled” away they’d be suffering a broken wrist/limb i.e., as “soft” as a particular martial art ma...(Click Here To Read The Article)
Conan O’Brien recalls the time (he was still a student at Harvard) when he met John Candy and told him that he wanted to “try” comedy. Candy’s response – which was not disparaging – was that you don’t try comedy, you either do it, or you don’t. It convinced O’Brien that if he wanted to become a comedian he had to effectively “burn the boats” i.e., not have a contingency plan but to commit this path/route. We don’t know if John Candy gave this piece of advice to other aspiring comics, who didn’t ...(Click Here To Read The Article)
When fighting you don’t need to look at something to know where a target is. In an interview, Mike Tyson was once asked where he “looked”, and he indicated to the chest area. The interviewer asked why he didn’t look at the head, and Tyson replied that, the head can’t hit you. He knew where the target was: it was located directly over the chest/torso, and he didn’t need to see it to be able to target it. There are many rookie/novice mistakes that people make when first starting to spar, and looki...(Click Here To Read The Article)
Personal experience can often get in the way of the facts. When you work in security you tend to see things from a certain perspective i.e., if you are always engaging with violent individuals, you can easily come away thinking/believing that the world is a violent place, and as a “trusted source” – someone who deals with violence – others will give weight to your perspective etc. Most people in modern society have so little firsthand experience(s) of violence that they’ll trust a martial arts/s...(Click Here To Read The Article)
In last week’s article (which can be accessed by clicking here), I looked at how mental/intellectual disabilities can significantly increase the risk of victimization. In this article I will look at the ways in which those with physical disabilities are more likely to be targeted than those without them. One of the things that differentiates physical disabilities from mental ones is that in many cases they are “external” and “visible” e.g., a predatory individual can easily recognize someone wit...(Click Here To Read The Article)
After writing an article about how older people as a demographic tend to be - as a group - victimized disproportionately/excessively, I was contacted about whether or not people with disabilities (both mental and physical) are specifically targeted for crime, including acts of violence. It’s not an area of criminology and victimology that I was/am particularly well-versed in/familiar with. So, I started to take a look at the research that exists around disabilities and victimization - this is my...(Click Here To Read The Article)
clicking here). Their model looks at how three factors - Instigation, Impellance, and Inhibition – interact to create aggressive/violent responses that result in what they termed Momentary Aggression i.e., aggression that occurred in the moment as a response to a perceived threat or injustice; something that is often referred to as spontaneous violence. In this article I want to look at how the I³ Model can be applied to a variety of real-life interactions, and how these can bring out differen...(Click Here To Read The Article)
In my final year at university, I took a module/course entitled “Psychology and Radical Economics”. It wasn’t so much by choice but as the result of a scheduling issue – to fit in the subject areas I wanted to study, I was left with a “gap”, that could only be filled by taking this course/module. It was a subject area that I felt completely out of my depth with, and a course that I barely felt I kept a grasp of, however there were only six of us taking the program, and we all bonded over our fai...(Click Here To Read The Article)
I was bullied as a kid. That experience shaped me. For a large part of my childhood I didn’t believe I had the right to be who I was. I wasn’t allowed and didn’t allow myself to have an identity, and when I tried to have an identity, it wasn’t shaped internally but externally to meet the requirements of others. When I was finally able to understand and realize who I was/am that became something extremely precious to me. Something that needed to be protected and something I wasn’t going to allow ...(Click Here To Read The Article)